Not sure if you knew this, but I'm single. Yeeeeeeyaaa pretty much. So when you're single, you always go to these singles retreats to learn about singleness. No not really, but some folks who haven't been around here long are starting to get that impression. Pastor Ritch, intern Matt and their wives lead our singles group for a day long retreat focusing contentment and dating. I think it was pretty good considering how many good things we were able to cover in such a short period of time.

There was, of course, a time were the men and women got separated for a topic on purity. This is where we covered what to do while watching Children Of The Corn 13 with your date and which members of your family NOT to marry...

Andrew and Bruce eagerly awaited their first shot at appearing on the blog. Here, however, Bruce did not pick up the clue phone when it rang.

Peter took the brave and successful step out into unknown game territory for our class. We usually play alot of large group activities that have been done many times in the past. With an ever changing group and the knowledge that they've worked in the past, it wasn't always a bad idea. But we definitely added some good stuff this year.

First was the spaghetti and marshmallow building competition. Self explanatory. And of course, the team with the most experienced engineer, Nan, kicked behind.


Other games were played, but the most new and original would have to be live battleship....also self explanatory. Thanks to Mooners for making the icebreaker new and exciting...and ego boosting for a certain blogger. Like he needed it.

Well, posting about the High School reunion later that night will have to wait. And posting more details about the wonderful teaching of our Pastoral families will have to be avoided. It was a great day exceeding expectations and offering up lots of things to consider and change. However, I will inevitably point out what didn't go well, like all those "didn't we just cover that" moments...and no one will enjoy that. Probably the greatest thing I've ever taken away from the teaching at this church is the knowledge that everything starts with the motive and heart attitude with which you approach anything in life. No amount of rules, lessons, habits or alternatives will ensure or should give you great confidence in how to handle situations if you do not first run it all by the test of why you are doing something, who it is/isn't for and know who's in charge. It applies well to everything from who to date to what to wear and I felt this was the groundwork for most of the teaching this weekend.

And then there was Hagrid...
1 comment:
I personally liked the discussion with the men regarding purity and idols and whatnot. Your point that an idol was anything without which you could not be happy was a good one, and I think that defining it like that makes it more real for people today when there are no carved images to worship, but plenty of other things. For instance, if you can't be happy without being married, then that is an idol. Most everyone will eventually be married, but I think lots of people struggle with this. It is really about where your heart is at before the Lord--will you love Christ more than your better half?. I liked what I said (can I say that?) also about priorities being a good indicator of potential idols. Do you want a girlfriend/spouse more than you want to grow in the Lord? Do you value a high-paying job more than obeying Him and going where He has called you? These are heart indicators of our attitude towards the Lord. It really boils down to whether or not we trust Him to provide and guide us through life. If we do, then all of the temptations towards idolatry will fade and we will be able to serve Him with a pure heart.
"For this is God, our God forever and ever; He will be our guide even unto death." --Psalm 48:14
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